Everyday reflection is often easier when a simple CBT tool gives people clear words for noticing, questioning and reshaping unhelpful thoughts. Catch Check Change is a one-page cognitive behavioural therapy prompt sheet for building more balanced thinking, self-talk and emotional awareness in counselling, wellbeing sessions, classrooms or at home.
People can use the Catch, Check, Change approach to pause automatic negative thoughts and replace them with more balanced, realistic self-talk. The page explains the CBT idea that thoughts affect how we feel and what we do, while reminding the reader that although events are not always controllable, the way they are interpreted can be explored.
The layout breaks the skill into three clear steps. “Catch” asks the person to notice the thought they are having and identify the words running through their mind. The prompt, “What am I telling myself right now?” makes it suitable for children, teenagers and adults who benefit from short, concrete questions.
“Check” then encourages gentle questioning rather than arguing with the thought. It includes prompts such as whether the thought is 100% true, what evidence exists for and against it, whether the person is thinking in extremes, and whether they would say the same thing to a friend.
“Change” focuses on replacing the unhelpful thought with a more balanced and helpful one. A worked example shows the shift from “I always mess things up” to a kinder alternative: mistakes can happen, one mistake does not define me, and I can learn and keep trying.
The printable format suits CBT sessions, school pastoral support, anxiety work, coaching conversations and home practice between appointments. The reminder box reinforces key ideas: thoughts are not facts, thinking can be trained, small changes can affect everything, and self-kindness matters.








